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Ramblings From A Mum
This is my journey, my thoughts, my views, plain and simple and from my heart. Please travel with me and share, hopefully it will be an interesting trip.
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Sorry, I changed the title as it didn’t read what I meant .. I was trying to say ..see how she has changed. Thank you for stopping by.
I just thought your name was Kay. I almost said “Oh, Kay!” but that had a creeper element to it. Have an ok day!
I wish! But your right had a touch of creeper ☺️ Thank you, I hope you have one too.
beautiful
💜 thank you
Ditto on the beautiful!!!!
💜 thank you
No matter how she has changed over time, she still carries a lot of you in her. She has your beautiful smile and eyes. I so know what you mean – from one mother to another. Big hugs to you, Jen.
💜 thank you Shirley, hugs. xx
She’s like Gwen Steffani in reverse!!!
She is? I shall tell her that she will be thrilled ~ thank you R.
Welcome J 🙂
The eyes are the windows to the soul! My father always told me that! K is beautiful.
💜 thank you darling, I look at the earlier pictures of her and now and see the change as others, but to me she is beautiful and always will be. xxx
yes and to me and the rest of the world she is beautiful too!! xxxxxxx
Very very kind, I just wish her ‘inside mind’ matched her outside appearance. By saying that her knowing her inner turmoil and how it doesn’t show in these photographs. xxx
Such changes in expression and as all have mentioned the eyes. All is beautiful Jenny.
Thank you Daniel ~ very kind.
She is gorgeous my lovely. She looks like you, your eyes in particular, beautiful cheekbones. Wow!
Then again, you are her beautiful mum. Love you.
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Too kind and sweet as usual..thank you my darling. Love you too 💜 xxx
Gorgeous. She appears to be in fantastic spirits. ❤ ❤ ❤
The top two were a while ago now, possibly 4 years+. The bottom is recent. Thank you darling 💜 xxx
She’s doing well, then? ❤
A little better darling thank you 💙💜💛
Her eyes speak volumes as if she’s holding onto the past and future.
That she is Carolyn, very perceptive, thank you 💜 xx
I’ll hold space for her and you too. xo
So beautiful. I hope she is doing well. #2 my fave 🙂
Thank you Jodi, the 2nd was at an animal sanctuary a few years ago.. The more natural K. 💜 x
So gorgeous and looks. So much like you. 🙂
I do wish, but I thank you darling 💜 xx
all current or is this over time…
different shades of personality…
my school one is def different from my home one…
smiles.
Over time Bri, the first about 6 yrs ago, the 2nd about 4 and the last…current. I guess being her mum, I see the difference in her face and it’s not just make up or weight… What you didn’t have a Mohawk at school? Smiles.
ooooo, you have to change your hair colour too Mumsy. 😉
*hugsss*
How are things going?
Well I have blonde bits, but that colour… Possibly not hun. 😀 she seems calmer with the medication. Will email soon. xxx💜 hugsss back.
I don’t know how I missed this post. K is so beautiful. Just going by the images, one would never know the inner turmoil. She appears so at peace. Regardless, a beauty…like her momma.
How gorgeous are you, thank you Beck. The top 2 were a while ago now. She has changed somewhat….💙 xx
i hope that pops is doing ok after the fall…
my gramma had a head attack yesterday in the middle of our winter storm…
we are here at the hospital now with her…
Oh Bri, my thoughts are with you and your family. Such a terrible time, when those we are close to through this. Pop is doing ok..shaky and weak..I’m hoping he’ll get better soon. I don’t pray but my positive thoughts are out in the Universe for your gramma, I hope all goes well..take care… Hugs
And thank you so much for responding this way…
Wow she is a lovely young woman! She’ll need to be careful with all the guys chasing after her! 🙂
No, sadly she doesn’t. She has one at the moment, been together 3 and a bit years. He is now on medication for depression…. It’s a never ending circle it seems, but I thank you for the compliment ..on her behalf ☺️
She is very like you, Jen. A beautiful young woman. But I do know what you mean about the change in appearance. I always wonder whether the exterior change, when it’s drastic, is to help the person cope, like wearing a mask daring anyone to penetrate beneath. Or whether it’s a true reflection of what is going on inside in other ways.
It’s hard to watch the changes and not be able to do more than what you are doing. Kids will worry us one way or another forever. So said my mum and I believe her now.
Hugs to you and your kids and to your penguins, Jen. Generations of everything going on all to be coped with. Life’s a bugger at times.xxx
Thanks sweetheart, yes too much going on right now. Her appearance changes daily now. From make up to hair colour all the Borderlines way of trying to find themselves and be happy with their existence. Something they find difficulty doing. Thank you for reading hun and your compliments and thoughts. Xx
I also am going to say this is a great visual of your daughter. I am very amazed at her versatility and beauty. I am hoping you know because I have two vastly different daughters, both can be so unusual in their appearances. My oldest in her art college days and her gothic high school days was amusing to me, but her father was quite nasty to her. My youngest goes from dark brown to blond to frosted. She is one who likes to look in style, while my oldest one is a hippie at heart. She is tromping around the snow in boots and a long skirt, as we speak!
The tribute to the “Three Faces of Eve,” was not lost on this big movie buff, Jen. I feel she is a unique and special young woman who will be able find her place under the sun someday. I hope and pray you will continue to be strong, which can be so difficult under many circumstances.
Thank you Rob, I love the visual of your eldest stomping in the snow, boots and long skirt. We have our differences don’t we. Some more than others though, not just our physical appearance. I hope she finds her place in the sun. I would be the happiest mum on this earth to see her smile and enjoying life once again. I am trying, some days I want to fold, but I know I cant with what is going on. I knew Three faces of Eve would be recognised … Smiles and hugs 💜💜
This was a powerful post because it shows that you love K in all her forms and no matter how she dresses or acts or whatever, she will always be your beautiful baby girl. For my own education, does BPD happen as a result of depression/ anxiety or does it have any particular trigger? My friend’s husband has ADD, Bi-polar and also they are looking into the possibility that he has BPD as well.
Merryn, I see you have been reading a few posts. I haven’t written for two months, but l happened to be looking through your comments. Yes she always will be my little girl, no matter what. BPD manifests usually in the late twenties, though some are experiencing it earlier. At first thought a cross between Bi-Polar and Schizophrenia, BPD is now a stand alone illness. There are 9 criteria to BPD. K has seven. Depression, anxiety, fear of abandonment, abuse of any kind, there are many triggers. It is cureable, medication can also help. It’s a tough road. Thank you for reading my posts. I hope soon to return. Take care.
I haven’t written much these past few months and have read even less, so I’m doing a bit of catching up. That’s amazing to know BPD can heal. I’m starting to believe that depression can too. It may always be a weakness, but doesn’t have to be the controlling force. I was clicking back through some old posts and remembered your blog was one I enjoyed reading a lot. So much honesty and also your poems are beautiful.
Perhaps my last post will explain why I have been absent for so long also. Thank you for continuing to read and your gracious compliments.